My girlfriend tends to make everything difficult, even things that are simple in nature. For instance this past summer, I booked a cruise for three days, paid for everything. The day before we leave, she starts acting up worrying about the dumbest things. She end up not going, for what ever reason. I went anyways, since I was not about to trow away my money. Now my friend, his gf and I are booking a nice luxury 2 bdr condo for the winter at mammoth lakes village right at the slopes, to suit 4 guests. Its an expensive vacation, at first my gf sounded all exited today I talked to her, she does not want to go anymore. She says she knows her parents have a problem with it and that she will not have fun, and we will end up arguing. It sucks, I am the kind of person that plans everything ahead, I quit jobs in the past because they made changes to my schedule on a short notice. My gf has a problem with making plans, she makes them a day before or at the last minute. Why the heck does she do that, why do such simple things become difficult. We got everything covered, rental car, food, place to stay. Why the F$^% is it so difficult?
ohh not to mention she gets pissed when I go somewhere without her.

she might be thinking about it too much and then deciding not to go. try not planning anything for a while and see what she says.

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